| Katana (Kah-Tah-Nah) Japanese word for Samurai Sword  |
| Bathing in the sunshine |
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| Her ears slick back as I approach. It seems she is still intimidated. |
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| But this is what she does as she receives a little loving. |
Adventures with the Russell Clan
Showing posts with label Russell family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Russell family. Show all posts
Monday, January 9, 2012
More Katana
Sunday, January 8, 2012
Grief
Grief.
If it wasn't personal, grief would be a fascinating study for me.
When we told the kids they had to say good-bye to Rocky, each one reacted very differently.
Mckenna screamed, over and over, "No! This can't be it! No, not Rocky!" Each cry pierced our hearts.
Gabriel made vows: "I will write his name in every book. I will make sculptures and pictures of him."
Juliana mourned quietly, saying over and over, "This is so hard. It's hard to understand." She slept with pictures of him for days, tears slipping quietly from her eyes.
Daniel and I went through each of those emotions, though not at the same time.
Sometimes I wanted to reverse time, start all over, have him again; I mourned in disbelief that this could be the end. I would have done most anything to hold him once more.
Sometimes I wanted to keep on being miserable, fearing that if I stopped crying it would be like forgetting him, or letting him slip away.
And then it just hurt, a deep hurt that left me crying myself to sleep and waking up already sobbing. I have not experienced that before, and it just hurts.
Our previously planned trip to Disneyland for 2.5 days went a long way in our healing. Only I cried while we were there, knowing what was to come when we got home. And sure enough, walking into an empty house put Dan, Juliana and me over the edge again, and we all mourned fresh that night.
So Friday, we did what anyone would do (maybe?). We got a puppy.
And Monday we hope to get another one.
And our sweet new girl, Katana, has somehow squirmed, kissed, and wiggled her way into the hole left in my heart.
But I still miss my Rocky. And it requires effort to choose to move forward and not want to stay in the past.
And while he was a part of our family for 12 wonderful years, and saying good-bye was so very hard, he was only a dog.
Tonight I know loved ones mourning sick children, lost jobs, failing marriages, and other life altering trials.
So tonight I pray for my loved ones who are grieving. And I realize that my dear Rocky has once again taught me a lesson that will help me to help others, and I remain forever thankful.
If it wasn't personal, grief would be a fascinating study for me.
When we told the kids they had to say good-bye to Rocky, each one reacted very differently.
Mckenna screamed, over and over, "No! This can't be it! No, not Rocky!" Each cry pierced our hearts.
Gabriel made vows: "I will write his name in every book. I will make sculptures and pictures of him."
Juliana mourned quietly, saying over and over, "This is so hard. It's hard to understand." She slept with pictures of him for days, tears slipping quietly from her eyes.
Daniel and I went through each of those emotions, though not at the same time.
Sometimes I wanted to reverse time, start all over, have him again; I mourned in disbelief that this could be the end. I would have done most anything to hold him once more.
Sometimes I wanted to keep on being miserable, fearing that if I stopped crying it would be like forgetting him, or letting him slip away.
And then it just hurt, a deep hurt that left me crying myself to sleep and waking up already sobbing. I have not experienced that before, and it just hurts.
Our previously planned trip to Disneyland for 2.5 days went a long way in our healing. Only I cried while we were there, knowing what was to come when we got home. And sure enough, walking into an empty house put Dan, Juliana and me over the edge again, and we all mourned fresh that night.
So Friday, we did what anyone would do (maybe?). We got a puppy.
And Monday we hope to get another one.
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| Katana, 7 months |
And our sweet new girl, Katana, has somehow squirmed, kissed, and wiggled her way into the hole left in my heart.
But I still miss my Rocky. And it requires effort to choose to move forward and not want to stay in the past.
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| Rocky, 10 years |
And while he was a part of our family for 12 wonderful years, and saying good-bye was so very hard, he was only a dog.
Tonight I know loved ones mourning sick children, lost jobs, failing marriages, and other life altering trials.
So tonight I pray for my loved ones who are grieving. And I realize that my dear Rocky has once again taught me a lesson that will help me to help others, and I remain forever thankful.
Friday, December 2, 2011
It's Here
The Holiday season is upon us. Oh yes, it is.
In true to Carlee fashion, I started Advent activities with the kids (meant to be a daily countdown/reminder) early, and yet I am already behind. That's just how I roll.
In case you are looking for an easy, meaningful Advent idea, I am using Truth in the Tinsel. We read a Scripture passage and make an ornament each day, and the kids get to hang their ornaments on a ribbon in their rooms.
We alsoare reading will be reading this very sweet book about Benjamin Bear's travels to the Christ child that my dear Grandmother sent the kids last year. Each day Benjamin follows the star and meets up with a new character. My sweet mom helped me prepare an ornament for each story that corresponds to that day's character. It will be incredibly fun to do each day...you know, once we actually start. Hopefully by December 3rd.
We are giving gifts to 2 special people: A 3 year old girls whose father is in prison, and a teenager taking care of himself and 2 siblings. What a privilege it is to bring a little joy to 2 such young people. We went shopping tonight--some pink-princess-ballet stuff for the girl... and a Pre-paid Vis@ for the boy. Not as fun to shop for, but certainly to be appreciated.
As of this moment (as in just a few moments ago) I have no essays to grade in my house! Woo Hoo! That is always cause for excitement. I have had 6 sets since late Sept. That's 900 essays in 8 weeks. I remain grateful for my job this season!
Moving on, because that quantity of essays gives me a headache to think about.
December is sure to be packed: 2 regular season soccer games remain, our first piano recital, church programs, my parents here for our Christmas together, parties galore...all slated to end with Daniel's whole family here for New Year's Eve. I am planning a fun, laid back yet super cool "Christmas on New Year's" here and having a great time doing it.
Yes, December has come in full force, and I plan to enjoy every minute of it.
In true to Carlee fashion, I started Advent activities with the kids (meant to be a daily countdown/reminder) early, and yet I am already behind. That's just how I roll.
In case you are looking for an easy, meaningful Advent idea, I am using Truth in the Tinsel. We read a Scripture passage and make an ornament each day, and the kids get to hang their ornaments on a ribbon in their rooms.
We also
We are giving gifts to 2 special people: A 3 year old girls whose father is in prison, and a teenager taking care of himself and 2 siblings. What a privilege it is to bring a little joy to 2 such young people. We went shopping tonight--some pink-princess-ballet stuff for the girl... and a Pre-paid Vis@ for the boy. Not as fun to shop for, but certainly to be appreciated.
As of this moment (as in just a few moments ago) I have no essays to grade in my house! Woo Hoo! That is always cause for excitement. I have had 6 sets since late Sept. That's 900 essays in 8 weeks. I remain grateful for my job this season!
Moving on, because that quantity of essays gives me a headache to think about.
December is sure to be packed: 2 regular season soccer games remain, our first piano recital, church programs, my parents here for our Christmas together, parties galore...all slated to end with Daniel's whole family here for New Year's Eve. I am planning a fun, laid back yet super cool "Christmas on New Year's" here and having a great time doing it.
Yes, December has come in full force, and I plan to enjoy every minute of it.
Thursday, March 24, 2011
Jadelyn Turns 3!
So many of you prayed for my niece Jadelyn in January when she was suffering from seizures in the hospital. Not only has she been seizure free, but she is doing great. Praise God!
We spent last Saturday with Jadelyn and her new brother Kody, along with other cousins and their parents. A fun, relaxed time was had by all.
*side note: Juliana got an adorable new haircut--framing her face but still long in the back. The little tiny "alfalfa" hairs you see sticking up on top: she cut those herself :o)
We spent last Saturday with Jadelyn and her new brother Kody, along with other cousins and their parents. A fun, relaxed time was had by all.
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| What can I say about this picture of the birthday girl? Oh My Goodness she is too cute. |
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| Mckenna made this cake for Jadelyn |
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| Playing with her new playdough. |
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| "Happy Birthday to YOU!" |
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| As long as I moved and sang, Malcolm laughed and smiled (4 months old) |
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| Jules jumping on Jadelyn's new trampoline |
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| The 3 youngest cousins. Left to Right: Malcolm (4 months), Elijah (2 months), Kody (3weeks) We have been triple blessed! |
Thursday, October 21, 2010
The only Advice I have if you want to Homeschool
When you are ready to throw in the towel, when you feel like a disciplinarian instead of a teacher; when book learning has been shelved because a lack of common respect and manners rules the day, remember:
In the end, it is not about math or reading or history or science.
It is not about test scores, diplomas, or acceptance letters.
Those things will come.
In the end all our labors are for the glory of God that through His grace we raise children who love and serve Him.
Therefore, die to yourself daily, for these years are short, though the days are long. Put off your own plans and expectations and put on Christ, whose grace is sufficient, whose Word is Truth, whose Love conquers, whose plans surpass our own.
Enjoy the children the Lord has allowed you the privilege of raising.
Enjoy their curiosity, their energy, their sense of adventure, their day dreams. Enjoy their hopes, their plans, their wacky ideas.
Cook with them, clean with them, run through sprinklers and rain.
Correct their hearts over their behavior.
Smile more than you scold.
Read books, not chapters, snuggled on the couch.
Count worms after rainstorms, not manipulatives.
If they make a bug catcher and want to bring their captives inside, let them.
When you read "If You Give a Mouse a Cookie" go see a mouse at a pet store and bake cookies.
As you study Rome, wear Togas and stage a war.
If making volcanoes is fun every month, do it over and over.
If learning is fun, they will love to learn.
If Mom is Godly, they will learn Godly character.
If Mom reads her Bible, so will her students.
If Mom relies on the Lord through prayer and patience, they will too.
Who you are is what counts to your children.
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
Have I Ever Mentioned....
My kids are really funny sometimes?
Daniel, at dinner tonight, recounted a couple conversations he has had with Gabe's Sunday School teachers. It all started in the early summer, before most people knew who we were. One teacher noticed a new little boy at her table who knew all the answers. It took her a couple weeks, but once she figured out it was Gabe she reported to Daniel all he had said. Now he gets weekly reports on the things Gabe says in Sunday School.
For instance, during the week they were studying Abram and Sarai, the teacher was pointing out that they left their people, in faith, and since they didn't have children they were alone.
Gabe said, "Well, they did take their nephew, Lot, with them."
Good point, bud.
Another week the class was studying Noah. When the teacher asked, " Who knows who Noah is?" Gabe raised his hand.
"Noah was righteous in the sight of God," was his answer.
Well, that just about sums it up.
His teachers are thoroughly enjoying him, and his little brainiac self, and I am seeing the fruits of my labor and the Grace of God at work--indeed, what they learn at home does stick with them!
Now, on to Mckenna. We are learning the books of the Bible in order. They have the New Testament down, but the Old Testament is a little harder. For the first time, apparently, Mckenna heard the title of the book, "Song of Solomon." In case your OT trivia is a little behind, that book is about King Solomon and the love he shares with his bride.
Mckenna asked what that book was about (she was excited it had the word "song" in it), and Daniel explained, without detail.
"Great," she said, "I want to read it."
"Uh, no, sweetie, not that book right now."
"Are you telling me I can't read the Bible?"
Wow, what a question.
And now for my sweet little Juliana.
At the dinner table, Juliana raises her hand, as she has been taught at AWANA.
"Mom, I am made of atoms! And you are made of atoms, and even bowls are made of atoms. Everything is made of atoms!"
"You're right. But one thing is not made of atoms, do you know what it is?"
"GOD!"
"Right! Why is God not made of atoms. What is God?"
"Spirit!"
Daniel was seriously impressed. I did let on that we learned that in our memorizing of the Shorter Western Catechism, but still, he was blown away!
Daniel, at dinner tonight, recounted a couple conversations he has had with Gabe's Sunday School teachers. It all started in the early summer, before most people knew who we were. One teacher noticed a new little boy at her table who knew all the answers. It took her a couple weeks, but once she figured out it was Gabe she reported to Daniel all he had said. Now he gets weekly reports on the things Gabe says in Sunday School.
For instance, during the week they were studying Abram and Sarai, the teacher was pointing out that they left their people, in faith, and since they didn't have children they were alone.
Gabe said, "Well, they did take their nephew, Lot, with them."
Good point, bud.
Another week the class was studying Noah. When the teacher asked, " Who knows who Noah is?" Gabe raised his hand.
"Noah was righteous in the sight of God," was his answer.
Well, that just about sums it up.
His teachers are thoroughly enjoying him, and his little brainiac self, and I am seeing the fruits of my labor and the Grace of God at work--indeed, what they learn at home does stick with them!
Now, on to Mckenna. We are learning the books of the Bible in order. They have the New Testament down, but the Old Testament is a little harder. For the first time, apparently, Mckenna heard the title of the book, "Song of Solomon." In case your OT trivia is a little behind, that book is about King Solomon and the love he shares with his bride.
Mckenna asked what that book was about (she was excited it had the word "song" in it), and Daniel explained, without detail.
"Great," she said, "I want to read it."
"Uh, no, sweetie, not that book right now."
"Are you telling me I can't read the Bible?"
Wow, what a question.
And now for my sweet little Juliana.
At the dinner table, Juliana raises her hand, as she has been taught at AWANA.
"Mom, I am made of atoms! And you are made of atoms, and even bowls are made of atoms. Everything is made of atoms!"
"You're right. But one thing is not made of atoms, do you know what it is?"
"GOD!"
"Right! Why is God not made of atoms. What is God?"
"Spirit!"
Daniel was seriously impressed. I did let on that we learned that in our memorizing of the Shorter Western Catechism, but still, he was blown away!
Thursday, September 2, 2010
I love peace, order, cleanliness and beauty. I love clean carpet and open floor space.
But right now if you came to my home...
you might find the living room turned into a train depot. And most likely at least 2 kids and 1 adult would be using remote controls to keep 6 trains from colliding.
We have multiple tables, and we use them all, but generally we clear them daily, wipe them down, and put some kind of decoration out.
But right now if you came to my home...
you would find this puzzle out. You might try to fit a piece in its correct spot (good luck! It's all zebras), and you might find us gathered around trying to sort the pieces (is this one white with black stripes or black with white stripes?).
I am a minimalist in a lot of things, including decorations, but I do love having a few nice things out--candles, pictures, a few odds and ends I have.
But right now if you came to my home...
Snow White, Cinderella and Ariel would grace your presence, serving as decor and dolls all in one.
Right now, my house does not always look very grown up.
Right now, there are red and blue plastic toys mixed in with glass candle holders.
Right now, the back grass needs mowing and a good dusting is in order.
But right now will be gone in only a few years. So right now I am the mom who lets her kids help decorate.
But right now if you came to my home...
We have multiple tables, and we use them all, but generally we clear them daily, wipe them down, and put some kind of decoration out.
But right now if you came to my home...
I am a minimalist in a lot of things, including decorations, but I do love having a few nice things out--candles, pictures, a few odds and ends I have.
But right now if you came to my home...
Right now, my house does not always look very grown up.
Right now, there are red and blue plastic toys mixed in with glass candle holders.
Right now, the back grass needs mowing and a good dusting is in order.
But right now will be gone in only a few years. So right now I am the mom who lets her kids help decorate.
Sunday, August 29, 2010
Our First Days of School
3 Moose, ready for their first day of school!
Thanks to Meadows Elementary School, my Alma Matter, for the I Love to Read inspiration.
The Bookshelf
This is the hub of school for us. Everything is labeled and organized, and the kids can get out and put away their own stuff. If you look closely, you will see that books are the primary form of education for us. And since I took this picture on the first day, we have added at least another 20 books to this shelf. I have had to rein the kids in and not let them just read every single book on the shelves at their own pace, or we would run out by the end of September! I know, it's a good problem to have.
The Homeschool Table
Through the generosity of family and friends, we own some really nice pieces of furniture. This table is not one of them, and yet it is probably my favorite piece we own. If you look closely, you can see red paint, faded stain, nail polish, crayon...etc. We bought it for $50 on Craigslist last year, including the 4 chairs, and I am so glad we did. I don't put newspaper on it when we paint, I scrub it down with soap daily, it sits on a sturdy rug, and we use it all day long. If it gets too covered, I will simply sand it down and start over.
The First Grader
He loves numbers, spelling, Bible, and history. He is eager, willing, and a quick learner. His smile is constant, even when he is practicing the dreaded handwriting, and he does anything he is asked. If only I could get him to stop asking to play Xbox every hour, even though he knows it's only for weekends, he would be the perfect student.
The Preschooler
Ready to learn, this student of mine loves to write, draw, trace, and create. If all learning could involve crayons and rhymes, she would be thrilled--and at this age it can. So we read fun books, we trace big letters, we make fun lapbooks, and we color--lots. And whenever she is done, she is allowed to play dollhouse or dress up, and she can rejoin us at anytime. Mostly she loves that I made her a history book this year so she can follow along with what we are studying.
The Third Grader
We have yet to start math, so thus far my darling girl is a happy student. She earned 100% on her spelling test, reads ahead in her first book, Poppy, and wishes we could spend more hours of the day in school. Her ability level is, on occasion, so much higher than I think it is, that I have to push myself and allow her to set the pace. The math I ordered is completely computer based, and since her favorite activities so far have been doing research online, I am hopeful she will thrive with this program.
Sunday, August 22, 2010
New Clothes from Grandma Sherry
While I was in Oregon, my Grandma, my mom and I went shopping...for the kids of course. :o)
Not only did we find clothes they like, that are nice and perfect for Sundays, but also ones that express their individual personalities.
My big girl, and growing every day. She loves tye-die, blue, jewelry, long skirts, and funky clothes. She is artsy, free spirited, and much too grown up for my own liking.
Add a braid on the side, and a peek around the tree, and I think she is perfectly beautiful.
Handsome in Orange, this boy can't stand "button shirts" or anything that might pass as dress clothes. But because this shirt is orange, he loves it, and was so happy to wear it with his sharp new shorts. He even let me spike his hair just a little today.
In case you didn't already know, this kid is Trouble with a capital T. She has charm and sweetness down to a science, and this dress only adds to her adorability.
Slightly school girl, with a cute tule skirt peeking out below, this dress twirls when she spins and bounces when she walks.
What more could a girl want?
Thanks Grandma for the kids' new clothes!
Not only did we find clothes they like, that are nice and perfect for Sundays, but also ones that express their individual personalities.
Add a braid on the side, and a peek around the tree, and I think she is perfectly beautiful.
In case you didn't already know, this kid is Trouble with a capital T. She has charm and sweetness down to a science, and this dress only adds to her adorability.
Slightly school girl, with a cute tule skirt peeking out below, this dress twirls when she spins and bounces when she walks.
What more could a girl want?
Thanks Grandma for the kids' new clothes!
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Mckenna's Reading List, Summer 2010
Warning, Brag Alert!
I was a reader as a child, and I am a reader still. While on a 5 day trip to Oregon last week, I read 4 novels, a book I will be reviewing soon called Mind Your Own Mortgage, and 4 books of the Bible. That is what I call a treat--time to read, even if it was on the plane or because I couldn't sleep.
But my daughter, Mckenna, who is not yet 9, will have me beat in the next few years. She is incredible! This is the best list we could come up with by looking at our bookshelves, and it's very likely we are missing some.
I was a reader as a child, and I am a reader still. While on a 5 day trip to Oregon last week, I read 4 novels, a book I will be reviewing soon called Mind Your Own Mortgage, and 4 books of the Bible. That is what I call a treat--time to read, even if it was on the plane or because I couldn't sleep.
But my daughter, Mckenna, who is not yet 9, will have me beat in the next few years. She is incredible! This is the best list we could come up with by looking at our bookshelves, and it's very likely we are missing some.
Books Mckenna Read
Summer 2010
Boxcar Children:
#14: Treehouse Mystery
#15: Bicycle Mystery
#16: Mystery in the Sand
#17:Mystery Behind the Wall
Peanut Butter and Jelly
Abby Hayes: The Declaration of Independence
It Takes Two
Judy Moody Gets Famous
Ramona’s World
Rent a Third Grader
Horrible Harry Moves up to Third Grade
Kickball Wedding
Cam Jansen and the Mystery of the Stolen Diamonds
Cam Jansen and the Chocolate Fudge Mystery
Cam Jansen and the Birthday Party Mystery
Hello Mrs. Piggle Wiggle
Mrs. Piggle Wiggle
Junie B Jones and her Big Fat Mouth
Junie B Jones and the Stupid Smelly Bus
Junie B Jones is a Beauty Shop Guy
Junie B Jones, First Grade At Last
The Puzzle Club Easter Adventure
Who Was Hellen Keller?
Foxtrot Comic Books:
-Am I a Mutant or What
-Welcome to Jurrasic Park
Currently Reading:
More Perfect Than the Moon
Ella Enchanted
From the Mixed Up Files of Ms. Basil E Frankweiler
Plain Girl
That's 25 books, with 4 in progress. All of these books are "chapter books," save the Foxtrot Comic Books. Some of them have 250 or more pages, though many are closer to 75-100.
My point is, she is incredible...and she is proving to be quite the challenge for Homeschool. Finding age appropriate, reading level appropriate, challenging books for her is quite the task.
Soon I will post her book list for this coming year. However, now that we have looked over what she read this summer, I realize I need to improve her list for the year! I think there are only about 15 books on it, and that just won't do.
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Adventures
We, as a family, but driven by my Mckenna and me, have decided we need to go on more adventures. We make everyday an adventure (as best we can) and our life in general is always changing (which kinda counts as an adventure), but we want some planned, fun adventures.
We have delayed one fun California rite-of-passage until all the kids are old enough to get the full experience:
Mckenna went with friends 2 summers ago, but the rest of us have never been.
But, if all goes as planned, that will change in 5 months.
Of course, being the homeschool Mom I am (I kinda don't like the connotation that comes with that word, homeschool. I have been my kids' teacher since they were born. I taught them to sleep, to eat, to talk, to walk, to count...they don't need to be 5 for me to become their teacher. I digress, sorry.) I had to turn our vacation into an economics lesson.
Mckenna and I sat at the computer and planned our trip.
We found ticket prices, mapped our route and estimated our gasoline, found the best hotel deal (we are discriminated against--if you are into conspiracy theories. We cannot, as a family of 5, rent one room. We have to reserve a suite. My family is too big in their opinion for one room), budgeted for food, planned out our days (loosely, though, because it's not vacation for Daniel if we pack our days full).
I had her create a spreadsheet with prices (she had to figure out tax and parking too), and tally our expenses.
I explained that it is cheapest to go in January, so that is when we are going. She was hoping for next week.
Add a lesson in patience and delayed gratification, and move right along.
I know, right now you are thankful you are not my kid.
Then we counted the months until we go, she realized we should divide the cost by the number of months to figure out how much to save each month--insert math lesson, uh huh--and presto! We have a plan and savings plan.
I learned a lesson too.
Going on vacation is E.X.P.E.N.S.I.V.E. Even though we do it C.H.E.A.P.
However, it's doable. Just check out Mckenna's list of how we will save for it:
It's a great list.
But let me point out a few discrepancies.
1. She is the one who loves to eat out.
2. We just bought a gas-guzzler
3. We never buy toys
4. We keep track of our change
5. They have not been doing many chores--she only earned $3.75 in 2 weeks (she could earn $6 a week)--and they are committed to sponsoring a child in Haiti to go to school, so this could be a slow process.
6. She takes 30 minute showers when left to her own devices, leaves on the lights, the fan, etc.
I guess self-discipline is the next lesson to come.
My favorite part of the day was when I got a call requesting my tutoring services (it sounds all official when I say it that way); the second I was off the phone Mckenna said:
We have delayed one fun California rite-of-passage until all the kids are old enough to get the full experience:
Mckenna went with friends 2 summers ago, but the rest of us have never been.
But, if all goes as planned, that will change in 5 months.
Of course, being the homeschool Mom I am (I kinda don't like the connotation that comes with that word, homeschool. I have been my kids' teacher since they were born. I taught them to sleep, to eat, to talk, to walk, to count...they don't need to be 5 for me to become their teacher. I digress, sorry.) I had to turn our vacation into an economics lesson.
Mckenna and I sat at the computer and planned our trip.
We found ticket prices, mapped our route and estimated our gasoline, found the best hotel deal (we are discriminated against--if you are into conspiracy theories. We cannot, as a family of 5, rent one room. We have to reserve a suite. My family is too big in their opinion for one room), budgeted for food, planned out our days (loosely, though, because it's not vacation for Daniel if we pack our days full).
I had her create a spreadsheet with prices (she had to figure out tax and parking too), and tally our expenses.
I explained that it is cheapest to go in January, so that is when we are going. She was hoping for next week.
Add a lesson in patience and delayed gratification, and move right along.
I know, right now you are thankful you are not my kid.
Then we counted the months until we go, she realized we should divide the cost by the number of months to figure out how much to save each month--insert math lesson, uh huh--and presto! We have a plan and savings plan.
I learned a lesson too.
Going on vacation is E.X.P.E.N.S.I.V.E. Even though we do it C.H.E.A.P.
However, it's doable. Just check out Mckenna's list of how we will save for it:
| Don't go out to eat (much) |
| Save Gas |
| Don't buy toys |
| Save Loose Change |
| Contribute kids' allowances |
| Be energy efficient |
It's a great list.
But let me point out a few discrepancies.
1. She is the one who loves to eat out.
2. We just bought a gas-guzzler
3. We never buy toys
4. We keep track of our change
5. They have not been doing many chores--she only earned $3.75 in 2 weeks (she could earn $6 a week)--and they are committed to sponsoring a child in Haiti to go to school, so this could be a slow process.
6. She takes 30 minute showers when left to her own devices, leaves on the lights, the fan, etc.
I guess self-discipline is the next lesson to come.
My favorite part of the day was when I got a call requesting my tutoring services (it sounds all official when I say it that way); the second I was off the phone Mckenna said:
Mom, we can save your tutoring money for our vacation.
And of course, I will. Because we want to go on more adventures, and this one sounds particularly fun.
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
Randomness...with some funnies at the end
I painted today, with Mckenna. She threw away 2 drawings/paintings before completing them. I feel so bad...she totally inherited my perfectionist gene, and my self-critiquing gene. She was trying to paint some difficult stuff, but her frustration got the best of her, so I let her throw them out.
I, on the other hand, kind of liked my painting. I might even frame it and hang it. We will see.
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Speaking of painting, I bought spray paint to refinish some furniture. Now, I realize how redneck that sounds, but hang on a minute.
1. The furniture is already painted, and it would take more time than I have to strip the paint--and who knows what is actually underneath.
2. Our room (the whole house, actually) has large white walls. We need some color!
3. I have a plan, and have done some research, and I think it will turn out well.
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We are busy, busy, busy.
We had something going on every night last week, and this week is the same.
The kids have noticed. They like most of our activities--though not all. I feel like telling them: Just wait until school, soccer, and AWANA start...then you will see busy!
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A Gabe-ism for you, just because.
Mom: Gabe, looks like this book is for you!
Gabe: Mom! What's that book? It looks like a Bible story!
Mom: Yep, it sure is!
Gabe: It's, it's...David and Galactica!
...Containing my laughter...
Mom: Yep, sure is buddy. David and Galactica.
Gabe: But mom, why is he so tall?
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And, proof that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, a funny Daniel moment.
Context: We have been trying to find various and assorted businesses in our new hometown, and keep our eyes open for places we haven't seen before. As we were driving away from the post office, I saw a building tucked away called Life Bank, with a large red blood drop next to the words.
Me: Hey Babe, I bet that's the blood donation center.
Daniel, instantly: Or a Vampire Store.
I love him.
I, on the other hand, kind of liked my painting. I might even frame it and hang it. We will see.
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Speaking of painting, I bought spray paint to refinish some furniture. Now, I realize how redneck that sounds, but hang on a minute.
1. The furniture is already painted, and it would take more time than I have to strip the paint--and who knows what is actually underneath.
2. Our room (the whole house, actually) has large white walls. We need some color!
3. I have a plan, and have done some research, and I think it will turn out well.
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We are busy, busy, busy.
We had something going on every night last week, and this week is the same.
The kids have noticed. They like most of our activities--though not all. I feel like telling them: Just wait until school, soccer, and AWANA start...then you will see busy!
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A Gabe-ism for you, just because.
Mom: Gabe, looks like this book is for you!
Gabe: Mom! What's that book? It looks like a Bible story!
Mom: Yep, it sure is!
Gabe: It's, it's...David and Galactica!
...Containing my laughter...
Mom: Yep, sure is buddy. David and Galactica.
Gabe: But mom, why is he so tall?
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And, proof that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, a funny Daniel moment.
Context: We have been trying to find various and assorted businesses in our new hometown, and keep our eyes open for places we haven't seen before. As we were driving away from the post office, I saw a building tucked away called Life Bank, with a large red blood drop next to the words.
Me: Hey Babe, I bet that's the blood donation center.
Daniel, instantly: Or a Vampire Store.
I love him.
Saturday, July 10, 2010
Better Than...
Gabriel loves to work on his headstands
His handstands too--and he is getting very good.
Mckenna's cartwheels are improving
And Jules's fearlessness serves her well, even without a ton of technique.
But it's her attitude that gets her far.
Tonight, after doing her best handstand yet, she said,
"I am better than eve...."
wisely not finishing the word everyone.
wisely not finishing the word everyone.
Without missing a beat she changed her tune:
"I am better than myself!"
So with high fives and a lot of giggles we celebrated her success.
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Like Riding a Bicycle
Papa and Grandma gave Mckenna a bike for Christmas. We ordered it from Amazon, and were very excited when the huge box arrived. However, we never even got to put it together, as it was broken from the start. Sad to say, we never replaced it.
Until last weekend that is!
Grandma, Papa and I took Mckenna to a sporting goods store and tried on several bikes. We found one that is the perfect size, a beautiful color, and that should last her for 10 years.
And, even though it has been around 8 months since she has ridden one, getting back on was, well, like riding a bike.
Living on a gated street has been....how to describe this...interesting. We do not know how to walk out of our street yet, so that's caused some comical moments. But living on a gated street in terms of kids riding bikes--incredible! Mckenna met another little girl on our street and they ride almost every night together, for an hour or more!
I love her long braids down her back, and her look of determination on her face.
Gabe is learning to ride his bike without training wheels. He is great at riding, but he cannot start or stop yet :o). He took a break from learning to speed around on his old Big Wheel.
Juliana is getting a bike soon. Her little tiny trike is too little, and Gabe's Big Wheel is actually being held together with rope, and isn't a very smooth ride anymore. We just have to find the right size, and then she will be on her way.
It was probably 6:00 pm when I took these pictures. It was probably 100+ degrees when I took these pictures. What can I tell you, we are adjusting!
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Visitors, visitors, and more visitors.
We LOVE visitors!
Last Tuesday, Grandma Gail came and spent 2 nights with us. We played, ran errands, toured the church, explored our new town, visited a park with a water feature for the first time, and enjoyed our time together. She left Thursday night.
Friday, around lunch time, my parents came in (with Kaleigh in tow). They stayed at a fancy resort, with 41 pools, and spent the whole weekend hanging out with us. We spent part of each day swimming at the resort!
On Monday, some dear girl friends came for a visit. Up until Sunday night, I thought only one friend was coming, but on Sunday night she called to see if 2 more friends could come along. Yes! As the kids all played happily, the girls talked endlessly. We definitely did not run out of things to talk about. We had such a great time and talked about places to meet that are more central--my house isn't really central to anywhere--and I hope we can do it soon. They were such a blessing to have around for a whole day. The kids played like little angels all day--also a huge blessing!
Melissa is coming for a visit (with KIDS!) in mid July, and some girls from Riverside are coming next week, potentially. I am so thankful! I am not completely lonely--there have been a few opportunities to get to know people at church, and my kids are so fun to have at home, but I do miss my friends.
Of all the visits we had, we only managed to take one picture, but it's a keeper...
We LOVE visitors!
Last Tuesday, Grandma Gail came and spent 2 nights with us. We played, ran errands, toured the church, explored our new town, visited a park with a water feature for the first time, and enjoyed our time together. She left Thursday night.
Friday, around lunch time, my parents came in (with Kaleigh in tow). They stayed at a fancy resort, with 41 pools, and spent the whole weekend hanging out with us. We spent part of each day swimming at the resort!
On Monday, some dear girl friends came for a visit. Up until Sunday night, I thought only one friend was coming, but on Sunday night she called to see if 2 more friends could come along. Yes! As the kids all played happily, the girls talked endlessly. We definitely did not run out of things to talk about. We had such a great time and talked about places to meet that are more central--my house isn't really central to anywhere--and I hope we can do it soon. They were such a blessing to have around for a whole day. The kids played like little angels all day--also a huge blessing!
Melissa is coming for a visit (with KIDS!) in mid July, and some girls from Riverside are coming next week, potentially. I am so thankful! I am not completely lonely--there have been a few opportunities to get to know people at church, and my kids are so fun to have at home, but I do miss my friends.
Of all the visits we had, we only managed to take one picture, but it's a keeper...
Papa Rob and his Mooses.
Saturday, June 19, 2010
Welcome Home Dad...
They waited until Daniel's second day of work was over
(wasn't that nice of them?)
(dad take the nerf gun inside on the washer, you'll need it!)
They did give him a means of defending himself
(they're just sweet like that)
But they were prepared for battle
(and so was he)
Fortunately for them, their dad thought being greeted in this way was perfect
(and the war lasted until dinner)
Monday, June 14, 2010
Trying to Return
I truly thought everyone would have stopped checking this blog by now. Posting has not been on the top of my list for some time...and with our move and getting settled, plus not having internet for a week, it has become impossible.
Now we are pretty well settled, Daniel starts work tomorrow (!), and I want to get back to it!
Until I can get pictures loaded, stay tuned for a summary of our funniest moments in the desert so far...
Now we are pretty well settled, Daniel starts work tomorrow (!), and I want to get back to it!
Until I can get pictures loaded, stay tuned for a summary of our funniest moments in the desert so far...
Sunday, May 30, 2010
Bear with me...
Never got around to writing about our Candidating weekend. In short, it was long, exhausting, and perfectly wonderful. We are truly in love with our new church.
We spent a great weekend at Joshua Tree, climbing and camping, catching up and hiking, relaxing and enjoying. 30 people came out, and what a blessing to realize someone was there from each part of our lives. Amazing friends, wonderful friends.
My friend Carla saved the day when she invited Dan and me to take showers at her house. She and her new husband, Rob, blessed us like crazy with, well, running water, warm clothes, and fresh coffee.
Then we drove back into Joshua Tree, and hiked and climbed to a crazy location. We watched Juli J marry the man she has loved since she was a teenager; and it was the most unique wedding I have ever been to. The wind howled and screeched, nearly blowing the bride and groom off the rock, but they said their "i-do's" and now they are off on new adventures.
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Never got around to relating to you all the funny things I read in the thousands of essays I graded. In summary, high school students range from brilliant to conflicted, and Tupac Shakur beat out Martin Luther King Jr. for most frequently chosen in the prompt: What historical figure could accurately speak an issue of our generation, and what would they say? I am still baffled at that choice.
Never got around to sharing wonderful things about our kids. In brief, they are blessings, and they continue to quietly bless others.
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We spent a great weekend at Joshua Tree, climbing and camping, catching up and hiking, relaxing and enjoying. 30 people came out, and what a blessing to realize someone was there from each part of our lives. Amazing friends, wonderful friends.
My friend Carla saved the day when she invited Dan and me to take showers at her house. She and her new husband, Rob, blessed us like crazy with, well, running water, warm clothes, and fresh coffee.
Then we drove back into Joshua Tree, and hiked and climbed to a crazy location. We watched Juli J marry the man she has loved since she was a teenager; and it was the most unique wedding I have ever been to. The wind howled and screeched, nearly blowing the bride and groom off the rock, but they said their "i-do's" and now they are off on new adventures.
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We have a moving day: Saturday, June 5. This weekend has consisted of packing, packing, and more packing. The truck gets loaded (by Daniel and his brother) on Friday, and we pull out Saturday. The church has arranged for helpers to unload and unpack, and they are bringing us lunch. Dan's parents are coming, yay!, and we hope to have things all unpacked in the next few days so we can play until Daniel starts work on the 15th.
It feels like life has been on hold for 7.5 months, and I am ready to kick start life. I will miss my one of a kind friend, though. She and I can spend all day together, all the time (not that we get to), and just be. She gets me, she shares all she has with me, and she loves me. And it goes both ways. Her kids and my kids love each other too--what more could I ask for? Melissa, love you.
I will miss my parents, and the little ways they bless my kids on a daily basis. Extra hugs, extra books, extra smiles over a job well done. What kid doesn't need more of that? They have blessed us incredibly, and though I would not pick to live with my parents at this stage of life, they have made it very easy.
It feels like life has been on hold for 7.5 months, and I am ready to kick start life. I will miss my one of a kind friend, though. She and I can spend all day together, all the time (not that we get to), and just be. She gets me, she shares all she has with me, and she loves me. And it goes both ways. Her kids and my kids love each other too--what more could I ask for? Melissa, love you.
I will miss my parents, and the little ways they bless my kids on a daily basis. Extra hugs, extra books, extra smiles over a job well done. What kid doesn't need more of that? They have blessed us incredibly, and though I would not pick to live with my parents at this stage of life, they have made it very easy.
Emotions are a funny thing. Sadness, in particular, wreaks havoc on a person. I wish I could say that I feel healed from our last church and how things ended, but I am not. I wish I could tell you that I understand why we were there, and why there is still a good amount of pain and frustration in my heart. I have some answers; it's not a lack of human information that keeps me from understanding, but rather a lack of seeing the need for certain things. One thing I can say with certainty is that I am so thankful for so many friendships and people. Even ones who I am not close with now, I will never regret knowing. My sadness no longer pervades my soul. I want to look back someday and feel peace and joy, but I don't, not yet. I know it's hard on others that there is tension there; it's not hard to see that things are not easy between the two worlds. But I have to be real. If I have learned anything, it's that I am not capable of being fake. I might be too honest, or too outspoken--I know I am at times--but no one can accuse me of not being deep or real. Thus, I cannot pretend that things are easy or fine, when they aren't.
Our new senior pastor, Pastor John, said some very healing words to me. You did not fail by leaving that church in less than two years, he said, everything you learned and all the ways you grew and stretched are useful for you, and useful to the church. He does not consider our time there to be anything outside of God's plan or as less than beneficial. He is thankful for it, and chooses to look ahead. I am trying to be more like him.
One of the things I am most excited about, and there are so many, is how much this church sees Daniel. There is an idea present in many modern books and movies that to see a person is to know them, to appreciate who they are, and to understand them. And isn't that what we all want, to be truly seen? They get him, and they want him for exactly who he is. They even nailed his engineering mind, and his ability to accomplish a to-do list. Seriously, they see him.
The vote to bring Daniel on as Associate Pastor was 83 to 1, and the 1 is a funny story. Someone voted "no" on principle--no one is perfect or something like that. I think it's hilarious, and if you know Daniel at all, it fits him. 83 to 1. What an affirmation those numbers are, especially if you knew that this church voted against bringing a previous candidate.
Three hundred and eleven people heard Daniel preach the weekend we were there. 311. That number has kicked around in my head ever since. 311 potential friends. 311 hearts. 311 faces. 311 names. I cannot wait to learn them all.
Our new senior pastor, Pastor John, said some very healing words to me. You did not fail by leaving that church in less than two years, he said, everything you learned and all the ways you grew and stretched are useful for you, and useful to the church. He does not consider our time there to be anything outside of God's plan or as less than beneficial. He is thankful for it, and chooses to look ahead. I am trying to be more like him.
One of the things I am most excited about, and there are so many, is how much this church sees Daniel. There is an idea present in many modern books and movies that to see a person is to know them, to appreciate who they are, and to understand them. And isn't that what we all want, to be truly seen? They get him, and they want him for exactly who he is. They even nailed his engineering mind, and his ability to accomplish a to-do list. Seriously, they see him.
The vote to bring Daniel on as Associate Pastor was 83 to 1, and the 1 is a funny story. Someone voted "no" on principle--no one is perfect or something like that. I think it's hilarious, and if you know Daniel at all, it fits him. 83 to 1. What an affirmation those numbers are, especially if you knew that this church voted against bringing a previous candidate.
Three hundred and eleven people heard Daniel preach the weekend we were there. 311. That number has kicked around in my head ever since. 311 potential friends. 311 hearts. 311 faces. 311 names. I cannot wait to learn them all.
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
We're Moving!
Too much to do, and not a lot of time...but I wanted to put it out in cyber space that my awesome husband is OFFICIALLY the Associate Pastor of Small Groups (with a lot of other responsibilities).
We are not planning to put location details on the blog or facebook, though I will be posting a lot more details about the candidating weekend and the church and the job very soon.
But, it is in Southern CA, and not too far from family and friends--which is an added bonus for sure!
We are on cloud nine!
Thanks for praying for us, joining in this crazy up and down roller coaster that the past 7.5 months have been, and for loving and supporting us.
Thursday, April 29, 2010
We are Officially
....crazy? Yes.
....busy? Mmm, Hmm.
....Candidating? Oh, yeah.
We head out to the desert area (so. cal desert is as specific as we are getting right now) on May 14-16 to meet the rest of a wonderful church, whose pastors and elders have thus far been pretty darn great. We meet, greet, talk, eat...and then Daniel preaches. And if the congregation agrees with the elders and the search committee, we get offered a job!
We are very, very, very excited. However, we have learned not to assume anything, and are cautiously opitimistic about this. Until the vote is done and the official offer is in, we will not allow ourselves to assume we have a job.
But, at the same time, we are already talking with a realtor (because it takes at least a month and half to close an escrow right now), looking at schools, martial arts gyms, and life out there in general.
Oh, and to the surprise of many, this is not a youth pastor job. As much as we would have loved to work with students FOREVER because we think they are amazing, the Lord over time has made clear to Daniel and to me that it is time to modify our calling.
There are plenty of posts swirling around in my head right now, with titles like:
How getting a job as a Pastor is more like a marriage than a business agreement
Want to learn patience? Apply to a church!
Why I feel Honored to be hosting a graduation party
Juli J is getting married! So, what does that make me?
Why Mark is my BFF, and how much I adore his Wife.
What Grading 1,350 essays in 4 months does to one person's brain
Do not read any bitterness into the 2nd title. We are THANKFUL for the time spent in prayer and consideration, research and reflection by the church, and all churches Daniel has applied to. It is not a decision to be made quickly, because the effects of whom a church hires are long lasting. But my dad, in particular, has literally groaned at how slow this process is; and it has tested our stress levels and our joy in huge ways.
And that last title is why those posts will not be getting written right now. I have 300 to go...150 need to get done in 6 days (25 per day), and then I have a little under 2 weeks to get the other 150 done. A full day of that second set is grading 6-10 per day. I have to grade 15 each day, because there are 4-5 days when I won't be able to grade at all.
So, that said, I am off! Off to Homeschool, off to GRADE, off to pray, off to play with my beautiful family.
....busy? Mmm, Hmm.
....Candidating? Oh, yeah.
We head out to the desert area (so. cal desert is as specific as we are getting right now) on May 14-16 to meet the rest of a wonderful church, whose pastors and elders have thus far been pretty darn great. We meet, greet, talk, eat...and then Daniel preaches. And if the congregation agrees with the elders and the search committee, we get offered a job!
We are very, very, very excited. However, we have learned not to assume anything, and are cautiously opitimistic about this. Until the vote is done and the official offer is in, we will not allow ourselves to assume we have a job.
But, at the same time, we are already talking with a realtor (because it takes at least a month and half to close an escrow right now), looking at schools, martial arts gyms, and life out there in general.
Oh, and to the surprise of many, this is not a youth pastor job. As much as we would have loved to work with students FOREVER because we think they are amazing, the Lord over time has made clear to Daniel and to me that it is time to modify our calling.
There are plenty of posts swirling around in my head right now, with titles like:
How getting a job as a Pastor is more like a marriage than a business agreement
Want to learn patience? Apply to a church!
Why I feel Honored to be hosting a graduation party
Juli J is getting married! So, what does that make me?
Why Mark is my BFF, and how much I adore his Wife.
What Grading 1,350 essays in 4 months does to one person's brain
Do not read any bitterness into the 2nd title. We are THANKFUL for the time spent in prayer and consideration, research and reflection by the church, and all churches Daniel has applied to. It is not a decision to be made quickly, because the effects of whom a church hires are long lasting. But my dad, in particular, has literally groaned at how slow this process is; and it has tested our stress levels and our joy in huge ways.
And that last title is why those posts will not be getting written right now. I have 300 to go...150 need to get done in 6 days (25 per day), and then I have a little under 2 weeks to get the other 150 done. A full day of that second set is grading 6-10 per day. I have to grade 15 each day, because there are 4-5 days when I won't be able to grade at all.
So, that said, I am off! Off to Homeschool, off to GRADE, off to pray, off to play with my beautiful family.
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